Sometimes the love people decide 'Better me than you', 'I will follow you', is a sense of guilt (actually your fault for the death of her grandmother – not), that is not said, has not approached once again, did not call … If you want to 'let go' grandmother at the sky and live, taking with respect and life and death – go. With a psychologist to do it environmentally friendly. ANSWER: Shenderova Elena MoskvZdravstvuyte psychologist, Kate! Often the loss of a significant person for us is undoubtedly a stressful situation, it experiencing grief and loss, but the psyche of all people react differently to this loss, someone is going through, and crying, can not do anything, but that happens and this does not seem to hard (of course there is loss of consciousness), but in life generally (and No tantrums, and somehow quietly), but still our minds gradually rethinks the situation has occurred in your case, and that's why you can not sleep, that is, Your mind is still working and busy, but here let out and to work independently You can not just your mind and you and cares, not just releasing this information because you can not cope on their own or frighten their reaction and their feelings, yet not all save in myself and just for that and there are psychologists, a person in whom to confide, who will take your feelings and emotions, help them understand and cope with them, simple and easy, even the one who is no longer close, but leaving sense of security and release this man is quite possible that a better place than our life here! Think what would have wished your grandmother being there for you HERE? do not hoard all of himself, the voice, he said, can write her a letter – it is still there and if we remember the man, he is always with us and helps us survive all the hardships and difficulties, feeling the strength and safety! If you decide – you can feel free to contact me, please call – I will glad to help you! For information about psychologists mentioned in this article, you can see on the website. Here, Dr. Kevin Cahill expresses very clear opinions on the subject.
450mV. AFP distilled water = 300 … 450mV. Interpret the significance of these figures. The internal environment of a person has a negative ORP (-70mV). And is a donor of electrons, which are necessary for cells to function.
Free electrons provide the normal cell membrane potential, pereokislyayut free radicals and thereby remove the decay products are fueling the energy (electron donors) in the normal oxidative reactions of the organism, etc. etc. When ordinary drinking water into the tissue of the human (or other) organism, it takes away electrons from cells and tissues, which consist of water by 70-80%. As a result, biological structures body (cell membranes, organelles of cells, nucleic acids and others) are subject to oxidative degradation. Since the body wears out, aging, vital organs lose their function. But these negative processes can be slowed if the organism with drinking water and food supplied with the properties of the internal environment of an organism, ie, having a protective properties. This is confirmed by numerous research in specialized academic centers in Russia and abroad. Now imagine what happens when you drink water that has a 450 mV ORP.
In this case, all your life force goes out to bring this destructive to the body fluid to the required (-70mV). And how to take the body to free electrons, if the urban air of negative ions in the hundreds of times lower than normal, if all the food and water are acidified (acid rain), if the fruit juice, fresh and abundant plant foods with environmentally friendly "beds" are not very accessible. And what we eat and drink, does not differ by AFP from tap water. As a result, the body in an attempt to get free electrons, is forced to consume more food and even harder to oxidize it, and this leads to zashlakovke, fat storage, and again to the formation of free radicals, for which the output needs more food, etc.
Most men believe the amazing depth and strength of woman's beauty makes it mysterious. Almost every woman wants to have in their arsenal of such weapons, but to get it is often hampered complexes … who need to learn how … destroy! So why do people start from complexes? – Complexes with which we often prefer to run away from problems arising from some psychological trauma, which fixed in the human subconscious – says Nazip Khamitov known psychoanalyst, philosopher and writer. – There are five basic psychological complexes that we have with his wife Svetlana Krylova, also a psychoanalyst, called the as follows: complexes Eternal Cinderella, Snow Queen, Marilyn Monroe, Joan of Arc and Athens. "Eternal Cinderella" … It was a beautiful woman in her late thirties, with the lack of movement and anxiety in his voice. She told me that she had married late, children no.
With her husband lived for six months. He left her. Ina now lives with his mother, as it was before her marriage … During a conversation with the psychologists found that the father also left her mother in about a half a year after the wedding … … Mother with Children instructed her daughter that beauty and happiness can not connect, they say, the beauty attracts misery … And the fear of beauty has become almost an instinct for Ina. So when her life appeared Igor – a strong, decisive, charming, generous with compliments, these fears are a few left the girl, she felt a rush of joy …
When married, you get more of the same parents. Like it or not, but they are there and you there's no getting around it. It was they who gave you her husband is, they taught him everything. Your parents, in turn, raised you and made you hostess. From the earliest days to try to cultivate in myself and my husband in respect to their parents.
About Love is not out of the question, because they know little about the people, but eventually you will become very close. Do you own family, but their parents can not forget. There was a family whose children were common concerns, and now the children their own families. Yes, there steals a midlife crisis. When life are well underway, have grown children and problems that exist in my youth – have been resolved.
Parents bound and united you, but now there is a void! Well, if the parents are warm and trusting relationship and they need each other. And there are families, Ged only semblance of family and children when they leave, the parents would like nothing and no ties. And then anything can happen, but we are not going to bad, we'll create a family, and after the ship on a journey, and your relationship will continue in middle and old age. If you live in the same city with her parents, enough 2-3 times a week to call and ask how things were going, and on Saturday or Sunday to visit. On Saturday, the parents of her husband, on Sunday for his wife's parents.
No one knows when this will end. That is true. One may do the calculations and give forecasts, but life always puts everything in its place. In our country, forecasts a thankless job … I honestly do not remember that at least one has come true.
And even if the global crisis, in Russia it is without a doubt, "goes its own way," as always. Choose your case – to listen to suggestions of scientists heads, or just move on. By the way, you know that the astrologers predicted that the crisis will last 60 years? Think about that number … and relax! 60 years is not like three years and not four or even ten. This is a whole life! Do you want to be afraid all your life? Yes, you can not. The human psyche is arranged very wisely. She adapts to everything. Just imagine …
the crisis came to a whole life … And Does this crisis in such a case? Or simply – the new living conditions? What do we do now? As always – to choose from. Some might immediately ordered his memorial service. And someone will wave a hand and will look for ways to resolve crisis … starts in their heads. Read the stories above. I suggest you find the pluses of the global crisis. You think not? That's because you're used to believe the TV. And if you change the angle of view, the crisis can be found in a lot of advantages. Thus, start? Pros crisis.
The soul of man through the structure of the soul and consciousness of the Spirit of projects that build the physical body, and all of reality in interaction with the spirit and consciousness of the physical body of the One God. Soul of the principal, the fundamental basis of the World. Spirit, showing the action of the Soul, and consciousness as a result of the actions are part of the soul, but stand out as a structure in accordance with the trinity, the underlying world. Soul, Spirit and Consciousness is the spiritual foundation together, and with the body form of human personality. The structure of consciousness, projected from the Soul consists of personal consciousness, which includes cellular consciousness, and the field of collective consciousness. The structures of the Spirit and the Collective Consciousness consider in subsequent articles, and a surfactant, for a general idea, because the information can be placed in a voluminous book. Centre for Rights, the structure of the Soul Sphere is located at chest level, near solar plexus.
Scope of the Spirit to the left, near the heart. Areas below the sphere of consciousness of the Soul, and the scope of the Collective Consciousness against the navel. Practice of the Soul are the elements most important of which are described in the section 'Structure of the Soul. "Each element of the Soul in the structure of consciousness creates a substructure that matches the main manifestations of the World: Space, Time, Eternity, Infinity, Love, Life, Information, Energy.
Now I'm not going to talk to you. But dad would come home, what did he say? ". And so it goes in the same spirit. First child understands the rules of this new game for him. But over time, influenced by his parents, he begins to get involved in it and play by the rules of their parents. And now the child after each of its faults (the word speaks for itself), parents do not to its abuse.
He will do it themselves. In the child's head instantly turned an internal dialogue in which he curses and blames himself. Do you think that he grew up, stopped playing this game? Not at all. Within us, for throughout our lives we carry the words of our parents. Think about what you say to yourself, when it admitted the mistake, make a mistake or doing the wrong in your opinion? You scold yourself and blame.
How did this kid your parents. It acts as an unnecessary and harmful to our well-being habit. Unlike us, the little kid whose parents have not yet started to curse and take all his antics, never blames himself. He fully accept and love yourself for who he is. And this is its great advantage. If we stop criticizing and blaming yourself for every occasion, and without it, we'll get a huge advantage. We have gained confidence and strength for great achievements. Once again, we will become cohesive and strong. The same as when we were deep in childhood.
Therefore, all that remains – this is to sit quietly and humbly carry his cross to the grave. Error 7. Search guilty about, here is where to turn! Find the guilty in an unsuccessful trajectory of his life is not easy, but very simple. Parents not inherited the genes of genius, and those who happen to have been transferred, mercilessly stomped school pipeline. My childhood was difficult, given cakes every day, and homework assignments – each.
By as bad influence of the street completely baffled's weak heart and accustomed to toss, guilt, and dominoes. In addition to all this happened in the country with the wrong treatment and inadequate rulers who no help in education did not have, and only put a spoke in the wheels of a young inquisitive mind. And, perhaps, a chance to break out in people, but it was stolen iezutski Freemasons – Freemasons, who finally put an end to all the joy of life and can only drink and swear, drink and swear at those who again raised the prices on vodka. Error 8. Who would have thought my problems are very comfortable taking off position of full responsibility for everything that is happening. – You know, I'm so bad remembering names and numbers that do not even remember what I had husbands. – I have had a topographical cretinism, which can never in my apartment to get to the bathroom on the first try, but because it was embarrassment. – Search for a job? What do you mean, I do not know how, and then, but I'll have to work all day? It's so weird.
- You I squint, it would be better included in my situation, I thin nature and do not like when I was loaded with all sorts of problems. So what, that this is my problem, well, you decide them somehow. Error 9. All goats in the lives of all failures are attributed to those people with whom a person is contacted. Therefore, when a goat-chief can not make a career, goats, subordinates do not understand, with goats, friends do not cook meals, and only women with goats, no cases it is better not to have. Therefore, such an advanced spiritual and very hard to live. After all, how to live when you – the enlightened one, and all around – the goats? Error 10. Life senseless and ruthless and, finally, you can catch the most ridiculous mistake. Sunuvshis right in the thick and singed wings, a person decides that life – that's a terrible thing and there is nothing to catch. Wherever you throw everywhere wedge. And what if live? That's what we say on-line training "Journey to Myself", details of which can be found here.
Now what do with all that? Likewise, and I thought, when I was searching for an intuitive way to victory over the habit. You, fortunately, the situation is much simpler, you do not have to wander in the dark, my experience will help you move forward. In our inner world, for the romantics fortunately for fans of exact sciences, unfortunately, almost impossible to "weigh in grams," or that feeling, or that emotion. And accordingly, I can not offer you a measurement unit for determining the weight of your stereotypes that support your habit. But as any owner can determine the degree of anger of their pet or the degree of importance for him personally some things, so I think any person can identify and "weight" of the stereotype. I find it necessary to remind anyone that the "weight" or charge a stereotype defined by the force of sensations and emotions, have arisen or arise, you in the process of stereotype. The stronger the emotions and feelings, the more "weight" (the charge) stereotype. And the harder it is to neutralize, and correspondingly more difficult to get rid of habit, supported by the data of the stereotype.
But difficult does not mean it is not possible. Well, what do you all remember, respect your habit, and therefore you have decided on a system of stereotypes, which support it. You are quite clearly defined "weight" of your stereotypes. Excellent. Now we can proceed. BUT only one can cause frustration in the proposed method, especially for people eager to action.
And if someone tells you about the other side, do you think that it is contrary to you, do you think his words are irrational, mysterious. And another should be the opposite, otherwise there would be no river, the river – it's the tension of opposites. But it is not hostile to the opposition – in the depth they are friendly, the pinnacle of love. This problem should be solved. If you can find a solution, you will be able to understand all the awakened and Heraclitus, and all those who knew the other side. All that they say will sound contradictory, because they speak from a position of both banks. For them, winter and summer together in one .., day and night, life and death, love and hate, the peak and valley – one.
When someone talks about the top, it is not touching the valley, its results will be very rational and you can understand them, they are not complicated, they are consistent. But if someone is speaking about the valley, does not affect the top, it is also rational. All philosophers are rational – you can understand them without any problems. To understand them, you just need a little education and training, nothing more, a little discipline. But to understand the mystics difficult. In fact, the more you try to understand them, the more they become mysterious – because they talk about the top of the valley and at the same time. Something is pushing them to mix in one vertex and Valley. In the Upanishads say: "He is near and far." What is that statement? He is either close or far away.
But seeing says: "It is far. – And then he adds – and close. " He is the greatest and smallest. He – the atom, and he – together. He is within, and he outside .. Heraclitus tells us that God – and it's winter and summer. Summer? – Well, that you can understand. Only the winter? – Well, that you too can understand, this is available to you. But winter and summer together? Then you feel nausea and dizziness. Mind said: "This is a controversial statement." Human logic is looking for consistent statements – and the logos is contradictory. Logos uses conflict as opposed to an architect uses bricks to create arch – he lozhit bricks in front of each other. Contrast provides voltage and power – and on this arch, you can build a big building. But if you do not put the bricks in front of each other, if you are consistent, logical, just valley or just the tip of this beach or that, and never together – then your structure will collapse, the arch will not be able to hold on. Then you get sick – mentally or physically and you start anorexia or bulimia. Psychiatric treatment Anorexia is a complex process. Need tension of opposites, to create strength. Take a man and woman – they opposed the existence of the bricks. The very opposite of making life possible. They – The two banks, the river can flow. But in that moment when you start talking about the valley and on the top together, it becomes incomprehensible.