Springtime is an anxious time for many parents, especially acute problem for those whose child this fall will go to first grade. Educational race in our time begins with the selection of a good and prestigious school, training on training courses, testing, sometimes on duty at the school door on the day of application and, finally, entering the long-awaited first class. And it seems that such actions are justified by their parents, is concern about the future of children, and yet often give rise to a number of psychological issues, whose consequences are sometimes not immediately visible, but no less dangerous. In our difficult situation in terms of social and economic instability of a large number of adults living in constant fear of "not cope with the difficulties": losing their jobs, become poor, sick. Parents have become more insecure, vulnerable and emotionally unstable.
In society is born a new psychological phenomenon: the "fear of failure of children." Adults are afraid that the child is not prepared for school, or not cope well with school requirements in high school, can not withstand competition with other children, be a loser, low value in the eyes of teachers and peers, with no prospects in the future. This parental fear is bad for schoolchildren. Children suffer abuse peers and even teachers, afraid of losing a prestigious school, to spoil a mark in the certificate, to damage relations with teachers. They are silent and suffering, afraid to bring your tired overdriven and the parents' worries.
Mary, March 31st 2012 |
Sometimes the love people decide 'Better me than you', 'I will follow you', is a sense of guilt (actually your fault for the death of her grandmother – not), that is not said, has not approached once again, did not call … If you want to 'let go' grandmother at the sky and live, taking with respect and life and death – go. With a psychologist to do it environmentally friendly. ANSWER: Shenderova Elena MoskvZdravstvuyte psychologist, Kate! Often the loss of a significant person for us is undoubtedly a stressful situation, it experiencing grief and loss, but the psyche of all people react differently to this loss, someone is going through, and crying, can not do anything, but that happens and this does not seem to hard (of course there is loss of consciousness), but in life generally (and No tantrums, and somehow quietly), but still our minds gradually rethinks the situation has occurred in your case, and that's why you can not sleep, that is, Your mind is still working and busy, but here let out and to work independently You can not just your mind and you and cares, not just releasing this information because you can not cope on their own or frighten their reaction and their feelings, yet not all save in myself and just for that and there are psychologists, a person in whom to confide, who will take your feelings and emotions, help them understand and cope with them, simple and easy, even the one who is no longer close, but leaving sense of security and release this man is quite possible that a better place than our life here! Think what would have wished your grandmother being there for you HERE? do not hoard all of himself, the voice, he said, can write her a letter – it is still there and if we remember the man, he is always with us and helps us survive all the hardships and difficulties, feeling the strength and safety! If you decide – you can feel free to contact me, please call – I will glad to help you! For information about psychologists mentioned in this article, you can see on the website. Here, Dr. Kevin Cahill expresses very clear opinions on the subject.
Mary, March 24th 2012 |
450mV. AFP distilled water = 300 … 450mV. Interpret the significance of these figures. The internal environment of a person has a negative ORP (-70mV). And is a donor of electrons, which are necessary for cells to function.
Free electrons provide the normal cell membrane potential, pereokislyayut free radicals and thereby remove the decay products are fueling the energy (electron donors) in the normal oxidative reactions of the organism, etc. etc. When ordinary drinking water into the tissue of the human (or other) organism, it takes away electrons from cells and tissues, which consist of water by 70-80%. As a result, biological structures body (cell membranes, organelles of cells, nucleic acids and others) are subject to oxidative degradation. Since the body wears out, aging, vital organs lose their function. But these negative processes can be slowed if the organism with drinking water and food supplied with the properties of the internal environment of an organism, ie, having a protective properties. Learn more at: Herbalife. This is confirmed by numerous research in specialized academic centers in Russia and abroad. Now imagine what happens when you drink water that has a 450 mV ORP.
In this case, all your life force goes out to bring this destructive to the body fluid to the required (-70mV). And how to take the body to free electrons, if the urban air of negative ions in the hundreds of times lower than normal, if all the food and water are acidified (acid rain), if the fruit juice, fresh and abundant plant foods with environmentally friendly "beds" are not very accessible. And what we eat and drink, does not differ by AFP from tap water. As a result, the body in an attempt to get free electrons, is forced to consume more food and even harder to oxidize it, and this leads to zashlakovke, fat storage, and again to the formation of free radicals, for which the output needs more food, etc.
Mary, March 23rd 2012 |
Most men believe the amazing depth and strength of woman's beauty makes it mysterious. Almost every woman wants to have in their arsenal of such weapons, but to get it is often hampered complexes … who need to learn how … destroy! So why do people start from complexes? – Complexes with which we often prefer to run away from problems arising from some psychological trauma, which fixed in the human subconscious – says Nazip Khamitov known psychoanalyst, philosopher and writer. – There are five basic psychological complexes that we have with his wife Svetlana Krylova, also a psychoanalyst, called the as follows: complexes Eternal Cinderella, Snow Queen, Marilyn Monroe, Joan of Arc and Athens. Healthy Living can aid you in your search for knowledge. "Eternal Cinderella" … It was a beautiful woman in her late thirties, with the lack of movement and anxiety in his voice. She told me that she had married late, children no.
With her husband lived for six months. He left her. Ina now lives with his mother, as it was before her marriage … During a conversation with the psychologists found that the father also left her mother in about a half a year after the wedding … … Mother with Children instructed her daughter that beauty and happiness can not connect, they say, the beauty attracts misery … And the fear of beauty has become almost an instinct for Ina. So when her life appeared Igor – a strong, decisive, charming, generous with compliments, these fears are a few left the girl, she felt a rush of joy …
Mary, March 22nd 2012 |
When married, you get more of the same parents. Like it or not, but they are there and you there's no getting around it. It was they who gave you her husband is, they taught him everything. Your parents, in turn, raised you and made you hostess. From the earliest days to try to cultivate in myself and my husband in respect to their parents.
About Love is not out of the question, because they know little about the people, but eventually you will become very close. Do you own family, but their parents can not forget. There was a family whose children were common concerns, and now the children their own families. Yes, there steals a midlife crisis. When life are well underway, have grown children and problems that exist in my youth – have been resolved.
Parents bound and united you, but now there is a void! Well, if the parents are warm and trusting relationship and they need each other. And there are families, Ged only semblance of family and children when they leave, the parents would like nothing and no ties. And then anything can happen, but we are not going to bad, we'll create a family, and after the ship on a journey, and your relationship will continue in middle and old age. If you live in the same city with her parents, enough 2-3 times a week to call and ask how things were going, and on Saturday or Sunday to visit. On Saturday, the parents of her husband, on Sunday for his wife's parents.
Mary, March 21st 2012 |
Why am I bad. We receive many letters where people complain about their fate. We asked the Guru Sotidanandana Alid – Bevel – NATVA how they can help .. We receive many letters where people complain about their fate. We asked the Guru Sotidanandana Alid – Bevel – NATVA how they can help.
- There is nothing surprising – Teacher said .- People who are ill, have put secular above God. Learn more about this topic with the insights from Laura Rogers. And our lives are so arranged that it will never be all good may not always an average of 50% 50% good and evil. This is to ensure that people are not fully asleep and thought – why should he lives. After all, the purpose of life is not a career, starting a family and meeting the ever-growing desires. All this has not made anyone happy. Goal life to foster a love of God to the people, not only to his family, but to all people.
Often people complain that they either do not recognize, does not like. And they are at least 10 minutes a day think of the God, send love to him? If not, it is clear why they feel bad. Every morning and evening to listen to Geeta Ashram at least 10 minutes. You can dance to their favorite songs and send the love of God, the Master and others. If it is sincere, then you will feel a state of happiness. Want more happiness – more dance or just listen to Geeta Ashram, being in love.
Mary, March 21st 2012 |
No one knows when this will end. That is true. One may do the calculations and give forecasts, but life always puts everything in its place. In our country, forecasts a thankless job … I honestly do not remember that at least one has come true.
And even if the global crisis, in Russia it is without a doubt, "goes its own way," as always. Choose your case – to listen to suggestions of scientists heads, or just move on. By the way, you know that the astrologers predicted that the crisis will last 60 years? Think about that number … and relax! 60 years is not like three years and not four or even ten. This is a whole life! Do you want to be afraid all your life? Yes, you can not. The human psyche is arranged very wisely. She adapts to everything. Just imagine …
the crisis came to a whole life … And Does this crisis in such a case? Or simply – the new living conditions? What do we do now? As always – to choose from. Some might immediately ordered his memorial service. And someone will wave a hand and will look for ways to resolve crisis … starts in their heads. Read the stories above. I suggest you find the pluses of the global crisis. You think not? That's because you're used to believe the TV. And if you change the angle of view, the crisis can be found in a lot of advantages. Thus, start? Pros crisis.
Mary, March 20th 2012 |
The soul of man through the structure of the soul and consciousness of the Spirit of projects that build the physical body, and all of reality in interaction with the spirit and consciousness of the physical body of the One God. Soul of the principal, the fundamental basis of the World. Spirit, showing the action of the Soul, and consciousness as a result of the actions are part of the soul, but stand out as a structure in accordance with the trinity, the underlying world. Soul, Spirit and Consciousness is the spiritual foundation together, and with the body form of human personality. The structure of consciousness, projected from the Soul consists of personal consciousness, which includes cellular consciousness, and the field of collective consciousness. The structures of the Spirit and the Collective Consciousness consider in subsequent articles, and a surfactant, for a general idea, because the information can be placed in a voluminous book. Centre for Rights, the structure of the Soul Sphere is located at chest level, near solar plexus.
Scope of the Spirit to the left, near the heart. Areas below the sphere of consciousness of the Soul, and the scope of the Collective Consciousness against the navel. Practice of the Soul are the elements most important of which are described in the section 'Structure of the Soul. "Each element of the Soul in the structure of consciousness creates a substructure that matches the main manifestations of the World: Space, Time, Eternity, Infinity, Love, Life, Information, Energy.
Mary, March 20th 2012 |
In one famous song once sung: "There is only a moment between past and future – he is called life!" In other words, life – this is the moment where we are right now, and this time, as the train moves forward with us. Time can be divided into past, present and future. Past – these are events that we have experienced at one time, our memories, the future – something that has not happened yet, and now – is the line between past and future. And we live just for this trait. Often people pay a lot of time memories from the past and think about the future, and does not notice what was happening here and now.
Take, for example, such a case. You have the whole day was good mood. In the evening you went to the store and there you Naham. So, you return home from the store and think about what happened. You cover outrage, resentment and anger. You go through the park on a bright alley in the park smells like flowers. The street is warm and calm and the sky seemed to have the first stars … But you do not notice, because mentally still in the shop and are experiencing that situation! And sometimes it is difficult to tell yourself "Stop!" And again "Return" is now! There are times when how you analyze the past, your future depends. But in this case, it is better not to think about what happened, and that you can do with what happened! And what with good memories or dreams? Suppose you think of some pleasant event of the past and not notice anything around him.
Mary, March 17th 2012 |
Now I'm not going to talk to you. But dad would come home, what did he say? ". And so it goes in the same spirit. First child understands the rules of this new game for him. But over time, influenced by his parents, he begins to get involved in it and play by the rules of their parents. And now the child after each of its faults (the word speaks for itself), parents do not to its abuse.
He will do it themselves. In the child's head instantly turned an internal dialogue in which he curses and blames himself. Do you think that he grew up, stopped playing this game? Not at all. Within us, for throughout our lives we carry the words of our parents. Think about what you say to yourself, when it admitted the mistake, make a mistake or doing the wrong in your opinion? You scold yourself and blame.
How did this kid your parents. It acts as an unnecessary and harmful to our well-being habit. Unlike us, the little kid whose parents have not yet started to curse and take all his antics, never blames himself. He fully accept and love yourself for who he is. And this is its great advantage. If we stop criticizing and blaming yourself for every occasion, and without it, we'll get a huge advantage. We have gained confidence and strength for great achievements. Once again, we will become cohesive and strong. The same as when we were deep in childhood.
Mary, March 13th 2012 |