Issues from the Family

In this regard, would be useful to look back at our life in the past and ask yourself some questions: Is there unfinished, undetected situation or relationship? They, of course, consciously or unconsciously influenced by real life and take part in all our problems, conflicts, difficulties and failures that we face. There is our share of problems that may arise from another: a lack of understanding, lack of participation, and respect? Idea is to find our personal interest in the causes of failures or difficulties encountered, to clarify our position, and then estimate the positions of other parties involved. What are the unclarified situation or relationship that could affect our present state? Of course, we entered into the orbit of our current families, starting with the original family. And now it is necessary to consider the situation and the family: the conflicts, difficulties in certain cases, excluded person … since we know that children, with their unconscious love of parents, sometimes taking on the burden of care and not authorized by previous generations. (Example a son who should play the role of spouse who had abandoned his mother, etc.). This fate to bear the burden of another is an illusion, and in fact this is impossible.

A consequence of this will be suffering, which is continuously transmitted from generation to generation. We know also, that it is a "mistake" committed to the principle of seniority and dignity … In the family eyfonicheskih representations, regardless of whether one is talking about our current family (spouse and children) or on our first-born relatives (grandfathers, grandmothers, fathers, mothers, brothers and sisters), we can return a different burden of care to those to whom they belong. In order to, on the one hand, to find our own lives and our destiny to find them in our own power. On the other hand, restore dignity to those who would follow their own destiny, to bear its own weight. Failure to comply with the principle of precedence of this principle will inevitably lead to conflict situation.

This principle is violated in the case when trying to take the place of a young senior. This principle assumes that parents always remain "the greatest". Make your child an accomplice of their marital problems that put him at a place that was not his. It is fraught with disastrous consequences for all. It is important that children do not interfere in the affairs of the parent, but parents do not involve children in their marital relationships. This principle means that the person who receives or takes from others, must cultivate respect and gratitude to them. And so in all areas of life. As for the parents, they give what get themselves from their parents life. This force of life they can not add anything and nothing can take away either, nor keep for yourself. This encourages children to take parents for what they are, neither more nor less than: not giving up without fear and without requiring anything. This approach contains the power of humility, that is, taking life as it is. If the child refuses the part that represents the parents, whether their state of mind, their social status, their illness, or some aspect of their weaknesses, he can not get the power of life. For him, for his life is fraught with difficulties, challenges, setbacks, trouble or diseases.



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