Sometimes the love people decide 'Better me than you', 'I will follow you', is a sense of guilt (actually your fault for the death of her grandmother – not), that is not said, has not approached once again, did not call … If you want to 'let go' grandmother at the sky and live, taking with respect and life and death – go. With a psychologist to do it environmentally friendly. ANSWER: Shenderova Elena MoskvZdravstvuyte psychologist, Kate! Often the loss of a significant person for us is undoubtedly a stressful situation, it experiencing grief and loss, but the psyche of all people react differently to this loss, someone is going through, and crying, can not do anything, but that happens and this does not seem to hard (of course there is loss of consciousness), but in life generally (and No tantrums, and somehow quietly), but still our minds gradually rethinks the situation has occurred in your case, and that's why you can not sleep, that is, Your mind is still working and busy, but here let out and to work independently You can not just your mind and you and cares, not just releasing this information because you can not cope on their own or frighten their reaction and their feelings, yet not all save in myself and just for that and there are psychologists, a person in whom to confide, who will take your feelings and emotions, help them understand and cope with them, simple and easy, even the one who is no longer close, but leaving sense of security and release this man is quite possible that a better place than our life here! Think what would have wished your grandmother being there for you HERE? do not hoard all of himself, the voice, he said, can write her a letter – it is still there and if we remember the man, he is always with us and helps us survive all the hardships and difficulties, feeling the strength and safety! If you decide – you can feel free to contact me, please call – I will glad to help you! For information about psychologists mentioned in this article, you can see on the website. Here, Dr. Kevin Cahill expresses very clear opinions on the subject.
Living with GuiltPosted March 24th 2012 at 3:42 am by Mary
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