Same Parents

Now I'm not going to talk to you. But dad would come home, what did he say? ". And so it goes in the same spirit. First child understands the rules of this new game for him. But over time, influenced by his parents, he begins to get involved in it and play by the rules of their parents. And now the child after each of its faults (the word speaks for itself), parents do not to its abuse.

He will do it themselves. In the child's head instantly turned an internal dialogue in which he curses and blames himself. Do you think that he grew up, stopped playing this game? Not at all. Within us, for throughout our lives we carry the words of our parents. Think about what you say to yourself, when it admitted the mistake, make a mistake or doing the wrong in your opinion? You scold yourself and blame.

How did this kid your parents. It acts as an unnecessary and harmful to our well-being habit. Unlike us, the little kid whose parents have not yet started to curse and take all his antics, never blames himself. He fully accept and love yourself for who he is. And this is its great advantage. If we stop criticizing and blaming yourself for every occasion, and without it, we'll get a huge advantage. We have gained confidence and strength for great achievements. Once again, we will become cohesive and strong. The same as when we were deep in childhood.



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